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The Science of Sharing: 5 Ways to Help Little Ones Learn to Share

5 Learning-to-Share Activities for Your Toddler

They say sharing is caring… It’s true, of course, but for kids, sharing is so much more. It’s the key that opens the door to friendships, helps ensure a successful experience at school, and builds the foundation for regulating their emotions. If you are struggling with how to get your toddler to share, check out these five learning to share activities, from the Experts in Play at Educational Insights:

1. Start Slow

While preschoolers can begin to understand how it feels to not get a turn or be the one without, creating the empathy needed to inspire sharing, younger kids cannot. You’ll need to start slowly with your toddlers and preschoolers by inviting them to share your seat or your bowl of ice cream, modeling sharing behaviors without actually taking anything away from them.

2. Take Turns Sharing
Practice sharing at home with your preschooler by taking turns with a toy. Start by passing it back and forth, saying “First it’s your turn” and “Then it’s my turn”. Hold onto the toy for a few seconds longer with each pass. When you feel like your child is ready, set a timer for a minute or two—when time’s up, it’s the other person’s turn to play. You can also take turns adding to the same painting or drawing or placing puzzle pieces.

3. Play Games
Games are a great way to practice taking turns. Start with a cooperative game where everyone adds to the fun but there is no winner or loser so you can focus exclusively on taking turns and learning to share the pieces and dice.

4. Point Out the Plusses
Remind your kiddo that sharing and taking turns is one way they can make their friends feel good and want to spend more time together. You can also help them understand that sharing just feels good by giving them several (packaged) snacks, coloring pages, or simple toys (think plastic spider rings or mini bouncy balls) to pass out to their friends at a playdate.

5. Use Your Words
Praise your child for sharing, using specific words to describe how their actions made you or the object of their sharing feel. Point out examples of sharing to your child, explaining what you’re seeing and why it makes you feel so good to see it.

With some intentional learning to share activities, you can prime your preschooler to be a super-sharer! Give the activities above a go and remember, your child will learn to share—it just takes time and practice.

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The Science of Sharing: 5 Ways to Help Little Ones Learn to Share

5 Learning-to-Share Activities for Your Toddler

They say sharing is caring… It’s true, of course, but for kids, sharing is so much more. It’s the key that opens the door to friendships, helps ensure a successful experience at school, and builds the foundation for regulating their emotions. If you are struggling with how to get your toddler to share, check out these five learning to share activities, from the Experts in Play at Educational Insights:

1. Start Slow

While preschoolers can begin to understand how it feels to not get a turn or be the one without, creating the empathy needed to inspire sharing, younger kids cannot. You’ll need to start slowly with your toddlers and preschoolers by inviting them to share your seat or your bowl of ice cream, modeling sharing behaviors without actually taking anything away from them.

2. Take Turns Sharing
Practice sharing at home with your preschooler by taking turns with a toy. Start by passing it back and forth, saying “First it’s your turn” and “Then it’s my turn”. Hold onto the toy for a few seconds longer with each pass. When you feel like your child is ready, set a timer for a minute or two—when time’s up, it’s the other person’s turn to play. You can also take turns adding to the same painting or drawing or placing puzzle pieces.

3. Play Games
Games are a great way to practice taking turns. Start with a cooperative game where everyone adds to the fun but there is no winner or loser so you can focus exclusively on taking turns and learning to share the pieces and dice.

4. Point Out the Plusses
Remind your kiddo that sharing and taking turns is one way they can make their friends feel good and want to spend more time together. You can also help them understand that sharing just feels good by giving them several (packaged) snacks, coloring pages, or simple toys (think plastic spider rings or mini bouncy balls) to pass out to their friends at a playdate.

5. Use Your Words
Praise your child for sharing, using specific words to describe how their actions made you or the object of their sharing feel. Point out examples of sharing to your child, explaining what you’re seeing and why it makes you feel so good to see it.

With some intentional learning to share activities, you can prime your preschooler to be a super-sharer! Give the activities above a go and remember, your child will learn to share—it just takes time and practice.

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