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4 Big Ways to Build Your Kiddo’s Self-Esteem

4 Big Ways to Build Your Kiddo’s Self-Esteem

The Experts in Play at Educational Insights know that confident kids are more likely to feel well-liked and accepted by their friends and family, to feel proud of their accomplishments and optimistic about their abilities, to try new things, and to try again when they fail. Sounds pretty great, right? So, let’s make this the summer of self-esteem! Help your kids build confidence and self-esteem by:

1. Providing Opportunities to Try New Things

Mastering new tasks is a great way to build confidence. Provide your kids with age-appropriate activities, anything from holding their own sippy cup to buttoning their shirt—show them how, try it together, then give them a chance to do it alone (and another chance and another and another).

2. Praising Effort Over Results

Encourage your kids for every attempt, not just the one that completes the task. Letting them know how proud you are that they’re trying something new and that they’re not giving up builds the perseverance they’ll need to move past future failures.

3. Letting Your Kids Fail

Speaking of… humans learn through trial and error. It’s natural to want to protect your kids from failure and disappointment, but when you don’t give your kids the chance to make mistakes, you deprive them of the opportunity not only to learn how to do something, but also of the bigger message that achievement often takes multiple tries.

4. Setting Goals

If a task seems overwhelming, show your kiddo how to break it into smaller steps and work on one at a time. Build on each until you’ve achieved your goal, no matter how many tries it takes!

You can also support your kids’ self confidence through your own actions. Take your time on projects and chores and complete them with a positive attitude. Talk about mistakes you’ve made and what you’ll do to fix them and the worries or concerns you had before undertaking a project and how you overcame them. Confidence breeds confidence and you can be your child’s first self-esteem role model!

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4 Big Ways to Build Your Kiddo’s Self-Esteem

The Experts in Play at Educational Insights know that confident kids are more likely to feel well-liked and accepted by their friends and family, to feel proud of their accomplishments and optimistic about their abilities, to try new things, and to try again when they fail. Sounds pretty great, right? So, let’s make this the summer of self-esteem! Help your kids build confidence and self-esteem by:

1. Providing Opportunities to Try New Things

Mastering new tasks is a great way to build confidence. Provide your kids with age-appropriate activities, anything from holding their own sippy cup to buttoning their shirt—show them how, try it together, then give them a chance to do it alone (and another chance and another and another).

2. Praising Effort Over Results

Encourage your kids for every attempt, not just the one that completes the task. Letting them know how proud you are that they’re trying something new and that they’re not giving up builds the perseverance they’ll need to move past future failures.

3. Letting Your Kids Fail

Speaking of… humans learn through trial and error. It’s natural to want to protect your kids from failure and disappointment, but when you don’t give your kids the chance to make mistakes, you deprive them of the opportunity not only to learn how to do something, but also of the bigger message that achievement often takes multiple tries.

4. Setting Goals

If a task seems overwhelming, show your kiddo how to break it into smaller steps and work on one at a time. Build on each until you’ve achieved your goal, no matter how many tries it takes!

You can also support your kids’ self confidence through your own actions. Take your time on projects and chores and complete them with a positive attitude. Talk about mistakes you’ve made and what you’ll do to fix them and the worries or concerns you had before undertaking a project and how you overcame them. Confidence breeds confidence and you can be your child’s first self-esteem role model!

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